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Who you study with

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If you wanted to guess which people in an evening accounting course in Kuwait City will pass, the entrance score would tell you less than you expect.

A better question is who they sit with afterwards.

Some leave when the class ends and study alone, at home, after work, tired. Others drift into small groups of three or four who meet at the weekend, split the hard chapters, test each other, and notice when one of them goes quiet. The difference between those two paths is larger than the difference in talent between any two students in the room.

It is not only accounting. Anyone learning something as an adult, a language, a trade, how to sell what they make, is slowed or quickened by the people next to them. A group sets a pace you would not set for yourself. It makes skipping a week socially expensive. It lets you borrow someone else's understanding on the days your own runs out.

And it matters who is in it. A group that is coasting will teach you to coast. A group where one person always turns up having done more will pull everyone forward.

Forming one has never been easier. The friends of friends are a message away, and the group can meet on a screen as easily as at a table. The only real obstacle is the old habit of treating learning as something you do alone and prove alone.

Pick the course, then pick the people. The second choice decides more.